"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Spinning those plates while on Tinder

Berom

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I know we have a couple threads being discussed currently about Tinder techniques and such - so I apologize on beating the horse with this app.

I've been dating "spinning" a plate for a month or so. We hang out/fvck twice a week or so. She hasn't brought up exclusivity yet, but we seem to be comfortable with each other. I DON'T want to be exclusive, but I hope to keep her around for a while - she's a cool cat.

I want to get back on my Tinder game (I don't have it active currently). I had a lot of luck with this app. It's been a great way of getting more plates to spin when I'm too busy in life to get out.

I'm sure the chick I mentioned won't like the idea of me being on Tinder (even though we aren't exclusive). In the situation of her finding out, whether that being a friend of hers seeing me on there or a message pop on my phone when we're hanging - is there a technique or good way in convincing her to stick around and she shouldn't worry?

Can anyone relate?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Konada

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Totally agree with Espi, either they're in or they're out. Lying/cheating your way will only get her hurt and create more problems for rest of the men in the future.

Be unapologetic about your desires and motivations. If she brings up Tinder, this classic line "Is there a problem?" always shuts them up. I had a similar encounter a few months ago.

HB: Hey let me show you something cool. *Shows picture of me hitting up her friend on Tinder*
Me: Cool stuff. Is there a problem?
HB: Haha nope, just showing you that's all...
<Conversation continues as if nothing happened.>
 
PrettyBoyAJ

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Konada said:
Totally agree with Espi, either they're in or they're out. Lying/cheating your way will only get her hurt and create more problems for rest of the men in the future.

Be unapologetic about your desires and motivations. If she brings up Tinder, this classic line "Is there a problem?" always shuts them up. I had a similar encounter a few months ago.

HB: Hey let me show you something cool. *Shows picture of me hitting up her friend on Tinder*
Me: Cool stuff. Is there a problem?
HB: Haha nope, just showing you that's all...
<Conversation continues as if nothing happened.>
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Thats hilarious. Good sh*t! If she throws a fit cut the ***** loose.
 
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