"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Spinning those plates while on Tinder

Berom

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I know we have a couple threads being discussed currently about Tinder techniques and such - so I apologize on beating the horse with this app.

I've been dating "spinning" a plate for a month or so. We hang out/fvck twice a week or so. She hasn't brought up exclusivity yet, but we seem to be comfortable with each other. I DON'T want to be exclusive, but I hope to keep her around for a while - she's a cool cat.

I want to get back on my Tinder game (I don't have it active currently). I had a lot of luck with this app. It's been a great way of getting more plates to spin when I'm too busy in life to get out.

I'm sure the chick I mentioned won't like the idea of me being on Tinder (even though we aren't exclusive). In the situation of her finding out, whether that being a friend of hers seeing me on there or a message pop on my phone when we're hanging - is there a technique or good way in convincing her to stick around and she shouldn't worry?

Can anyone relate?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Konada

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Totally agree with Espi, either they're in or they're out. Lying/cheating your way will only get her hurt and create more problems for rest of the men in the future.

Be unapologetic about your desires and motivations. If she brings up Tinder, this classic line "Is there a problem?" always shuts them up. I had a similar encounter a few months ago.

HB: Hey let me show you something cool. *Shows picture of me hitting up her friend on Tinder*
Me: Cool stuff. Is there a problem?
HB: Haha nope, just showing you that's all...
<Conversation continues as if nothing happened.>
 
PrettyBoyAJ

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Konada said:
Totally agree with Espi, either they're in or they're out. Lying/cheating your way will only get her hurt and create more problems for rest of the men in the future.

Be unapologetic about your desires and motivations. If she brings up Tinder, this classic line "Is there a problem?" always shuts them up. I had a similar encounter a few months ago.

HB: Hey let me show you something cool. *Shows picture of me hitting up her friend on Tinder*
Me: Cool stuff. Is there a problem?
HB: Haha nope, just showing you that's all...
<Conversation continues as if nothing happened.>
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Thats hilarious. Good sh*t! If she throws a fit cut the ***** loose.
 
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