"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Spinning those plates while on Tinder

Berom

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I know we have a couple threads being discussed currently about Tinder techniques and such - so I apologize on beating the horse with this app.

I've been dating "spinning" a plate for a month or so. We hang out/fvck twice a week or so. She hasn't brought up exclusivity yet, but we seem to be comfortable with each other. I DON'T want to be exclusive, but I hope to keep her around for a while - she's a cool cat.

I want to get back on my Tinder game (I don't have it active currently). I had a lot of luck with this app. It's been a great way of getting more plates to spin when I'm too busy in life to get out.

I'm sure the chick I mentioned won't like the idea of me being on Tinder (even though we aren't exclusive). In the situation of her finding out, whether that being a friend of hers seeing me on there or a message pop on my phone when we're hanging - is there a technique or good way in convincing her to stick around and she shouldn't worry?

Can anyone relate?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Konada

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Totally agree with Espi, either they're in or they're out. Lying/cheating your way will only get her hurt and create more problems for rest of the men in the future.

Be unapologetic about your desires and motivations. If she brings up Tinder, this classic line "Is there a problem?" always shuts them up. I had a similar encounter a few months ago.

HB: Hey let me show you something cool. *Shows picture of me hitting up her friend on Tinder*
Me: Cool stuff. Is there a problem?
HB: Haha nope, just showing you that's all...
<Conversation continues as if nothing happened.>
 
PrettyBoyAJ

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Konada said:
Totally agree with Espi, either they're in or they're out. Lying/cheating your way will only get her hurt and create more problems for rest of the men in the future.

Be unapologetic about your desires and motivations. If she brings up Tinder, this classic line "Is there a problem?" always shuts them up. I had a similar encounter a few months ago.

HB: Hey let me show you something cool. *Shows picture of me hitting up her friend on Tinder*
Me: Cool stuff. Is there a problem?
HB: Haha nope, just showing you that's all...
<Conversation continues as if nothing happened.>
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Thats hilarious. Good sh*t! If she throws a fit cut the ***** loose.
 
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