"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Spinning Plates Are You? Do You Feel Guilt?

soulforge

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Ok currently I have 3 chicks in rotation..

Chick One is great sex, hot body, average looks, very caring around me, and always respectful.. However I don't consider her long term material...

Then the other two are just sex, fun, again I don't consider them long term material, but they seem nice enough!

All three chicks are now wanting exclusivity and relationship from me lol

I feel a little sorry for chick one, as she SO FAR seems like a very nice gal.

How do you prolific plate spinners deal with guilt?

Or do you not give any fuks and carry on spinning regardless?

I mean at some point I will be dropping at least one or two of these plates.. maybe even all three..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don't touch plates, and the sexual undertones are very subdued to the point to where I'm only communicating that I find her attractive. So, no 'guilt' here.

IOW, I come off as a guy I would want my daughter to be with.
 

zekko

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I hate the thought of hurting some girl, unintentional or not. I know many guys here revel in the thought of it. Some want revenge, some just figure women don't care about hurting you, why should they care about them?

But when PUA gurus push the idea of psychopathy or sociopathy, I don't think the idea is so much that women love sociopaths. It's that it's a lot easier to play the "game" if you don't have any conscience, or consideration for the other person's feelings. That frees you up to do what you have to do.
 

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I have a gf. Met another chick for a couple of meals and feel guilty af. Sometimes i don't want to hang out with my gf on weekends and that also makes me feelguilty af. Not sure what to do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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