"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Spinning Plates Are You? Do You Feel Guilt?

soulforge

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Ok currently I have 3 chicks in rotation..

Chick One is great sex, hot body, average looks, very caring around me, and always respectful.. However I don't consider her long term material...

Then the other two are just sex, fun, again I don't consider them long term material, but they seem nice enough!

All three chicks are now wanting exclusivity and relationship from me lol

I feel a little sorry for chick one, as she SO FAR seems like a very nice gal.

How do you prolific plate spinners deal with guilt?

Or do you not give any fuks and carry on spinning regardless?

I mean at some point I will be dropping at least one or two of these plates.. maybe even all three..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wifehunter

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I don't touch plates, and the sexual undertones are very subdued to the point to where I'm only communicating that I find her attractive. So, no 'guilt' here.

IOW, I come off as a guy I would want my daughter to be with.
 

zekko

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I hate the thought of hurting some girl, unintentional or not. I know many guys here revel in the thought of it. Some want revenge, some just figure women don't care about hurting you, why should they care about them?

But when PUA gurus push the idea of psychopathy or sociopathy, I don't think the idea is so much that women love sociopaths. It's that it's a lot easier to play the "game" if you don't have any conscience, or consideration for the other person's feelings. That frees you up to do what you have to do.
 

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I have a gf. Met another chick for a couple of meals and feel guilty af. Sometimes i don't want to hang out with my gf on weekends and that also makes me feelguilty af. Not sure what to do.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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