"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Spinning Plates Are You? Do You Feel Guilt?

soulforge

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Ok currently I have 3 chicks in rotation..

Chick One is great sex, hot body, average looks, very caring around me, and always respectful.. However I don't consider her long term material...

Then the other two are just sex, fun, again I don't consider them long term material, but they seem nice enough!

All three chicks are now wanting exclusivity and relationship from me lol

I feel a little sorry for chick one, as she SO FAR seems like a very nice gal.

How do you prolific plate spinners deal with guilt?

Or do you not give any fuks and carry on spinning regardless?

I mean at some point I will be dropping at least one or two of these plates.. maybe even all three..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't touch plates, and the sexual undertones are very subdued to the point to where I'm only communicating that I find her attractive. So, no 'guilt' here.

IOW, I come off as a guy I would want my daughter to be with.
 

zekko

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I hate the thought of hurting some girl, unintentional or not. I know many guys here revel in the thought of it. Some want revenge, some just figure women don't care about hurting you, why should they care about them?

But when PUA gurus push the idea of psychopathy or sociopathy, I don't think the idea is so much that women love sociopaths. It's that it's a lot easier to play the "game" if you don't have any conscience, or consideration for the other person's feelings. That frees you up to do what you have to do.
 

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I have a gf. Met another chick for a couple of meals and feel guilty af. Sometimes i don't want to hang out with my gf on weekends and that also makes me feelguilty af. Not sure what to do.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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