"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spinning Plates Are You? Do You Feel Guilt?

soulforge

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Ok currently I have 3 chicks in rotation..

Chick One is great sex, hot body, average looks, very caring around me, and always respectful.. However I don't consider her long term material...

Then the other two are just sex, fun, again I don't consider them long term material, but they seem nice enough!

All three chicks are now wanting exclusivity and relationship from me lol

I feel a little sorry for chick one, as she SO FAR seems like a very nice gal.

How do you prolific plate spinners deal with guilt?

Or do you not give any fuks and carry on spinning regardless?

I mean at some point I will be dropping at least one or two of these plates.. maybe even all three..
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I don't touch plates, and the sexual undertones are very subdued to the point to where I'm only communicating that I find her attractive. So, no 'guilt' here.

IOW, I come off as a guy I would want my daughter to be with.
 

zekko

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I hate the thought of hurting some girl, unintentional or not. I know many guys here revel in the thought of it. Some want revenge, some just figure women don't care about hurting you, why should they care about them?

But when PUA gurus push the idea of psychopathy or sociopathy, I don't think the idea is so much that women love sociopaths. It's that it's a lot easier to play the "game" if you don't have any conscience, or consideration for the other person's feelings. That frees you up to do what you have to do.
 

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I have a gf. Met another chick for a couple of meals and feel guilty af. Sometimes i don't want to hang out with my gf on weekends and that also makes me feelguilty af. Not sure what to do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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