dj ben2
Senior Don Juan
i know its probably been mentioned before but i cant find it. how do u boost up your metabolism.. mines slow and im hoping i can speed it up thru cardio diet whatever. i know it wont happen overnight
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
cardio, green/white tea, high protein, lots of vegetables, lots of water, heavy training.dj ben2 said:i know its probably been mentioned before but i cant find it. how do u boost up your metabolism.. mines slow and im hoping i can speed it up thru cardio diet whatever. i know it wont happen overnight
Hmm, will caffeine (i.e. black coffee) have a similar effect on (speeding up) metabolism, albeit perhaps to a lesser extent than green&white tea? If less, how much less?cardio, green/white tea, high protein, lots of vegetables, lots of water, heavy training.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
...shaunuk said:Hmm, will caffeine (i.e. black coffee) have a similar effect on (speeding up) metabolism, albeit perhaps to a lesser extent than green&white tea? If less, how much less?
CAFFEINE HELPS A LITTLE BUT NOT TOO MUCH. IT'S NOT SO MUCH THE CAFFEINE IN THE TEA BUT THE POLYPHENOLS WHICH PRODUCE THE METABOLISM BOOST (CAFFEINE DOES PLAY A PART BUT A SMALL ONE)
What's the reasoning behind the water and vegetables?
WATER KEEPS YOU HYDRATED WHICH MEANS A MORE EFFICIENT DIGESTIVE SYSTEM CAPABLE OF METABOLISING MORE FOOD IN A SHORTER TIME HENCE A GREATER METABOLIC BOOST
ICED WATER NEEDS CALORIES TO BE BROUGHT TO BODY TEMPERATURE ALSO
VEGETABLES ARE HARD TO DIGEST MUCH LIKE PROTEIN, THEY BURN OFF NEARLY THEIR (ALBEIT LOW) CALORIC VALUE JUST BY DIGESTING THEM. THEY ALSO CONTAIN FIBRE WHICH HELPS OUT DIGESTION AND THUS METABOLISM AS ABOVE
Cheers,
-shaun
caffeine does help... but black coffee is not a replacement for green tea. Green tea has a lot of good effects; antioxidant,speeds up metabolism, helps in lowering cholesteral, lowers chance of cancer, helps prevent heart disease, helps lower liver failure, etc...shaunuk said:Hmm, will caffeine (i.e. black coffee) have a similar effect on (speeding up) metabolism, albeit perhaps to a lesser extent than green&white tea? If less, how much less?
What's the reasoning behind the water and vegetables?
Cheers,
-shaun
I've never seen green tea pills so strong that you'd only need one a day for the full thermogenic benefit.Paintballguy said:i just get a huge bottle of green tea extract in pill form and take one daily.
500mg in one pillWarboss Alex said:I've never seen green tea pills so strong that you'd only need one a day for the full thermogenic benefit.
Yeah, so you'd need 4 pills a day to get the 2g in extract I recommend.Paintballguy said:500mg in one pill
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.