dj ben2
Senior Don Juan
i know its probably been mentioned before but i cant find it. how do u boost up your metabolism.. mines slow and im hoping i can speed it up thru cardio diet whatever. i know it wont happen overnight
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
cardio, green/white tea, high protein, lots of vegetables, lots of water, heavy training.dj ben2 said:i know its probably been mentioned before but i cant find it. how do u boost up your metabolism.. mines slow and im hoping i can speed it up thru cardio diet whatever. i know it wont happen overnight
Hmm, will caffeine (i.e. black coffee) have a similar effect on (speeding up) metabolism, albeit perhaps to a lesser extent than green&white tea? If less, how much less?cardio, green/white tea, high protein, lots of vegetables, lots of water, heavy training.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
...shaunuk said:Hmm, will caffeine (i.e. black coffee) have a similar effect on (speeding up) metabolism, albeit perhaps to a lesser extent than green&white tea? If less, how much less?
CAFFEINE HELPS A LITTLE BUT NOT TOO MUCH. IT'S NOT SO MUCH THE CAFFEINE IN THE TEA BUT THE POLYPHENOLS WHICH PRODUCE THE METABOLISM BOOST (CAFFEINE DOES PLAY A PART BUT A SMALL ONE)
What's the reasoning behind the water and vegetables?
WATER KEEPS YOU HYDRATED WHICH MEANS A MORE EFFICIENT DIGESTIVE SYSTEM CAPABLE OF METABOLISING MORE FOOD IN A SHORTER TIME HENCE A GREATER METABOLIC BOOST
ICED WATER NEEDS CALORIES TO BE BROUGHT TO BODY TEMPERATURE ALSO
VEGETABLES ARE HARD TO DIGEST MUCH LIKE PROTEIN, THEY BURN OFF NEARLY THEIR (ALBEIT LOW) CALORIC VALUE JUST BY DIGESTING THEM. THEY ALSO CONTAIN FIBRE WHICH HELPS OUT DIGESTION AND THUS METABOLISM AS ABOVE
Cheers,
-shaun
caffeine does help... but black coffee is not a replacement for green tea. Green tea has a lot of good effects; antioxidant,speeds up metabolism, helps in lowering cholesteral, lowers chance of cancer, helps prevent heart disease, helps lower liver failure, etc...shaunuk said:Hmm, will caffeine (i.e. black coffee) have a similar effect on (speeding up) metabolism, albeit perhaps to a lesser extent than green&white tea? If less, how much less?
What's the reasoning behind the water and vegetables?
Cheers,
-shaun
I've never seen green tea pills so strong that you'd only need one a day for the full thermogenic benefit.Paintballguy said:i just get a huge bottle of green tea extract in pill form and take one daily.
500mg in one pillWarboss Alex said:I've never seen green tea pills so strong that you'd only need one a day for the full thermogenic benefit.
Yeah, so you'd need 4 pills a day to get the 2g in extract I recommend.Paintballguy said:500mg in one pill
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.