"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Speed Seduction not for the mature man?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Player_Supreme
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Yeah, if a guy spits some pimpology some socalled "mature" persons will look at him funny but if someone with a Phd in psychology writes a book called "psychology and dating" which contains the technique of pimpology, it will sell like hot cakes.Originally posted by Player_Supreme: I disagree. If the science works for one, then it should work for all. I've been told by street pimps that I have been using it for years on a natural level, just as they do without realizing that some white guy had coined it and canned it and marketed it and is making a ton of money from it...lol
Deciding to listen to the b!tching and misconstrued perceptions of 25+ websurfers instead of looking at seduction from a scientific standpoint, is the downfall of this forum...
TooColdUlrick
Master Don Juan
as Playa' said, true DJ's already do this stuff. when they listen to RJ and the like, it's like "yeah, so what?"
seduction in general is what you should focus on. most of it is non-verbal, unlike the Speed Seduction stuff.
JustDoItAlways
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Mature men on this forum will remember something called "sweet talk" which was and still is the best way of getting laid. Speed seduction is just another form of it.
Chicks need and want romance, especially older women. Not the "give her flowers" romance but the "make her feel something" romance. Rapport, excitement, escape, anything (but horny is better.)
Your girlfriend needs it as much as your ONS needs it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.