"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Speed Seduction not for the mature man?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Player_Supreme
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Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Yeah, if a guy spits some pimpology some socalled "mature" persons will look at him funny but if someone with a Phd in psychology writes a book called "psychology and dating" which contains the technique of pimpology, it will sell like hot cakes.Originally posted by Player_Supreme: I disagree. If the science works for one, then it should work for all. I've been told by street pimps that I have been using it for years on a natural level, just as they do without realizing that some white guy had coined it and canned it and marketed it and is making a ton of money from it...lol
Deciding to listen to the b!tching and misconstrued perceptions of 25+ websurfers instead of looking at seduction from a scientific standpoint, is the downfall of this forum...
TooColdUlrick
Master Don Juan
as Playa' said, true DJ's already do this stuff. when they listen to RJ and the like, it's like "yeah, so what?"
seduction in general is what you should focus on. most of it is non-verbal, unlike the Speed Seduction stuff.
JustDoItAlways
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Mature men on this forum will remember something called "sweet talk" which was and still is the best way of getting laid. Speed seduction is just another form of it.
Chicks need and want romance, especially older women. Not the "give her flowers" romance but the "make her feel something" romance. Rapport, excitement, escape, anything (but horny is better.)
Your girlfriend needs it as much as your ONS needs it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.