PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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For what?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Spaz got banned?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
RickTheToad
Moderator
It was revealed he wasn't a real DJ. He only messed around with ladyboys in S.E. Asia.
PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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Figured that
There was a dumb back and forth between him and another user with a lot of personal insults thrown around. My guess is the mods warned him repeatedly and he ignored them.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
backseatjuan
Banned
He was one of few members here who was spot on. Prior to his ban there were trolls messaging people tell everyone he is secretly a lesbian. He was a valuable poster IMO.
sazc
Master Don Juan
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It's so weird that you guys send hateful messages to each other behind the scenes.
Some other poster mentioned some success he had and, later, mentioned that someone had messaged him with something hateful to say.
It's bizarre why some people feel the need to comment with hate. Why not just say nothing? I guess there's more competition going on here than I realized.
Exactly why my pms are disabled.
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user43770
Guest
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Yeah Spooz knew the game, but it was his general POV towards everybody here that likely got him banned.
Further proof that you can have all the knowledge in the world, but if you can't relate to people and gain their respect/trust, the knowledge is worthless.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
RickTheToad
Moderator
Are you sure about that? I could had sworn it was the other issue. ;'p
sazc
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Lol, did you try sending me one?
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
That always gets me.
Dudes who are have such allegedly tight game in real life, and are balancing all kinds of in-demand hotties and supermodels, etc., passing endless sh*t tests, yet always place SO MUCH importance on the opinions of RANDOM DUDES on the internet.
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user43770
Guest
It was a period joke.
backseatjuan
Banned
She knows it man. On her part it was AW bait as well.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
sazc
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I actually totally missed the joke until he pointed it out.
I don't have that much investment or energy in needing to bait anyone or anything.
Your own "aw bait" comment could be interpreted as an attempt shame and emabarass the poster who tried to make the joke. It could have just been left alone.
It goes right back to my original point/ question of "why are you guys tearing each other down in pm's?", and even openly on the boards? It just seems so petty to need to talk smack about another poster here. Why so much of a need to tear each other down? Ego? Jealousy? Inferiority complex?
Seems like way too much time and personal investment.
Carry on
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backseatjuan
Banned
Woman on a ship is bad luck. You miss Spaz and you need someone else to toy with, that's why you baiting, that's all there is to it. Carry on.
sazc
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Completely wrong
Carry on
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Ranger
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Until my account gets deleted as I requested...
This is a lie. Look at what posts the mods (logicallefty) has liked.
Anyone who told you that is full of crap.
In truth, that is what he wanted. A lot of very good and knowledgeable men have gotten themselves banded. Many on purpose.
Go back to the early 2000’s and read some of them. The passive men have always ruled this forum. Lol
Their fragile paradigms don’t hold up.
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Ranger
Guest
You better believe it. He took me from ready to steady. The whole thing is crystal clear now. It’s easy to separate the men from the boys for me now.
It’s like getting their foreheads tattooed...”Girls did this to me” hidden in their misguided advice.
They are the epitome of “help” being the covert attempt to get other men to crumble under the great power of OZ (women). Highly destructive. So impregnated by the feminine imperative that they are completely unsalvageable. Utterly.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.