"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Spaz got banned?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There was a dumb back and forth between him and another user with a lot of personal insults thrown around. My guess is the mods warned him repeatedly and he ignored them.
People need to teach their children:

 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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He was one of few members here who was spot on. Prior to his ban there were trolls messaging people tell everyone he is secretly a lesbian. He was a valuable poster IMO.
It's so weird that you guys send hateful messages to each other behind the scenes.

Some other poster mentioned some success he had and, later, mentioned that someone had messaged him with something hateful to say.

It's bizarre why some people feel the need to comment with hate. Why not just say nothing? I guess there's more competition going on here than I realized.

Exactly why my pms are disabled.
 

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Doesn't surprise me. He was very emotional.

When defeated by logic he would go straight to insults and demand proof that women talked to you.

He did run a lot of game on people here though, so he knew the concepts.
Yeah Spooz knew the game, but it was his general POV towards everybody here that likely got him banned.

Further proof that you can have all the knowledge in the world, but if you can't relate to people and gain their respect/trust, the knowledge is worthless.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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There was a dumb back and forth between him and another user with a lot of personal insults thrown around. My guess is the mods warned him repeatedly and he ignored them.
Are you sure about that? I could had sworn it was the other issue. ;'p
 

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When defeated by logic he would go straight to insults and demand proof that women talked to you.
That always gets me.

Dudes who are have such allegedly tight game in real life, and are balancing all kinds of in-demand hotties and supermodels, etc., passing endless sh*t tests, yet always place SO MUCH importance on the opinions of RANDOM DUDES on the internet.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She knows it man. On her part it was AW bait as well.
I actually totally missed the joke until he pointed it out.

I don't have that much investment or energy in needing to bait anyone or anything.

Your own "aw bait" comment could be interpreted as an attempt shame and emabarass the poster who tried to make the joke. It could have just been left alone.

It goes right back to my original point/ question of "why are you guys tearing each other down in pm's?", and even openly on the boards? It just seems so petty to need to talk smack about another poster here. Why so much of a need to tear each other down? Ego? Jealousy? Inferiority complex?

Seems like way too much time and personal investment.

Carry on
 
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Woman on a ship is bad luck. You miss Spaz and you need someone else to toy with, that's why you baiting, that's all there is to it. Carry on.
 

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Woman on a ship is bad luck. You miss Spaz and you need someone else to toy with, that's why you baiting, that's all there is to it. Carry on.
Completely wrong
Carry on
 
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It was revealed he wasn't a real DJ. He only messed around with ladyboys in S.E. Asia.
Until my account gets deleted as I requested...
This is a lie. Look at what posts the mods (logicallefty) has liked.
Anyone who told you that is full of crap.
In truth, that is what he wanted. A lot of very good and knowledgeable men have gotten themselves banded. Many on purpose.
Go back to the early 2000’s and read some of them. The passive men have always ruled this forum. Lol
Their fragile paradigms don’t hold up.
 
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He was one of few members here who was spot on. Prior to his ban there were trolls messaging people tell everyone he is secretly a lesbian. He was a valuable poster IMO.
You better believe it. He took me from ready to steady. The whole thing is crystal clear now. It’s easy to separate the men from the boys for me now.
It’s like getting their foreheads tattooed...”Girls did this to me” hidden in their misguided advice.

They are the epitome of “help” being the covert attempt to get other men to crumble under the great power of OZ (women). Highly destructive. So impregnated by the feminine imperative that they are completely unsalvageable. Utterly.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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