PeasantPlayer
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For what?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Spaz got banned?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
RickTheToad
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It was revealed he wasn't a real DJ. He only messed around with ladyboys in S.E. Asia.
PeasantPlayer
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Figured that
There was a dumb back and forth between him and another user with a lot of personal insults thrown around. My guess is the mods warned him repeatedly and he ignored them.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
backseatjuan
Banned
He was one of few members here who was spot on. Prior to his ban there were trolls messaging people tell everyone he is secretly a lesbian. He was a valuable poster IMO.
sazc
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It's so weird that you guys send hateful messages to each other behind the scenes.
Some other poster mentioned some success he had and, later, mentioned that someone had messaged him with something hateful to say.
It's bizarre why some people feel the need to comment with hate. Why not just say nothing? I guess there's more competition going on here than I realized.
Exactly why my pms are disabled.
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user43770
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speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Yeah Spooz knew the game, but it was his general POV towards everybody here that likely got him banned.
Further proof that you can have all the knowledge in the world, but if you can't relate to people and gain their respect/trust, the knowledge is worthless.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
RickTheToad
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Are you sure about that? I could had sworn it was the other issue. ;'p
sazc
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Lol, did you try sending me one?
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
That always gets me.
Dudes who are have such allegedly tight game in real life, and are balancing all kinds of in-demand hotties and supermodels, etc., passing endless sh*t tests, yet always place SO MUCH importance on the opinions of RANDOM DUDES on the internet.
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user43770
Guest
It was a period joke.
backseatjuan
Banned
She knows it man. On her part it was AW bait as well.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
sazc
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I actually totally missed the joke until he pointed it out.
I don't have that much investment or energy in needing to bait anyone or anything.
Your own "aw bait" comment could be interpreted as an attempt shame and emabarass the poster who tried to make the joke. It could have just been left alone.
It goes right back to my original point/ question of "why are you guys tearing each other down in pm's?", and even openly on the boards? It just seems so petty to need to talk smack about another poster here. Why so much of a need to tear each other down? Ego? Jealousy? Inferiority complex?
Seems like way too much time and personal investment.
Carry on
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backseatjuan
Banned
Woman on a ship is bad luck. You miss Spaz and you need someone else to toy with, that's why you baiting, that's all there is to it. Carry on.
sazc
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Completely wrong
Carry on
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Ranger
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Until my account gets deleted as I requested...
This is a lie. Look at what posts the mods (logicallefty) has liked.
Anyone who told you that is full of crap.
In truth, that is what he wanted. A lot of very good and knowledgeable men have gotten themselves banded. Many on purpose.
Go back to the early 2000’s and read some of them. The passive men have always ruled this forum. Lol
Their fragile paradigms don’t hold up.
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Ranger
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You better believe it. He took me from ready to steady. The whole thing is crystal clear now. It’s easy to separate the men from the boys for me now.
It’s like getting their foreheads tattooed...”Girls did this to me” hidden in their misguided advice.
They are the epitome of “help” being the covert attempt to get other men to crumble under the great power of OZ (women). Highly destructive. So impregnated by the feminine imperative that they are completely unsalvageable. Utterly.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.