PeasantPlayer
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For what?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Spaz got banned?
- Thread starter PeasantPlayer
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
RickTheToad
Moderator
It was revealed he wasn't a real DJ. He only messed around with ladyboys in S.E. Asia.
PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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Figured that
There was a dumb back and forth between him and another user with a lot of personal insults thrown around. My guess is the mods warned him repeatedly and he ignored them.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
backseatjuan
Banned
He was one of few members here who was spot on. Prior to his ban there were trolls messaging people tell everyone he is secretly a lesbian. He was a valuable poster IMO.
sazc
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It's so weird that you guys send hateful messages to each other behind the scenes.
Some other poster mentioned some success he had and, later, mentioned that someone had messaged him with something hateful to say.
It's bizarre why some people feel the need to comment with hate. Why not just say nothing? I guess there's more competition going on here than I realized.
Exactly why my pms are disabled.
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user43770
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speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Yeah Spooz knew the game, but it was his general POV towards everybody here that likely got him banned.
Further proof that you can have all the knowledge in the world, but if you can't relate to people and gain their respect/trust, the knowledge is worthless.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
RickTheToad
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Are you sure about that? I could had sworn it was the other issue. ;'p
sazc
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Lol, did you try sending me one?
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
That always gets me.
Dudes who are have such allegedly tight game in real life, and are balancing all kinds of in-demand hotties and supermodels, etc., passing endless sh*t tests, yet always place SO MUCH importance on the opinions of RANDOM DUDES on the internet.
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user43770
Guest
It was a period joke.
backseatjuan
Banned
She knows it man. On her part it was AW bait as well.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
sazc
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I actually totally missed the joke until he pointed it out.
I don't have that much investment or energy in needing to bait anyone or anything.
Your own "aw bait" comment could be interpreted as an attempt shame and emabarass the poster who tried to make the joke. It could have just been left alone.
It goes right back to my original point/ question of "why are you guys tearing each other down in pm's?", and even openly on the boards? It just seems so petty to need to talk smack about another poster here. Why so much of a need to tear each other down? Ego? Jealousy? Inferiority complex?
Seems like way too much time and personal investment.
Carry on
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backseatjuan
Banned
Woman on a ship is bad luck. You miss Spaz and you need someone else to toy with, that's why you baiting, that's all there is to it. Carry on.
sazc
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Completely wrong
Carry on
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Ranger
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Until my account gets deleted as I requested...
This is a lie. Look at what posts the mods (logicallefty) has liked.
Anyone who told you that is full of crap.
In truth, that is what he wanted. A lot of very good and knowledgeable men have gotten themselves banded. Many on purpose.
Go back to the early 2000’s and read some of them. The passive men have always ruled this forum. Lol
Their fragile paradigms don’t hold up.
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Ranger
Guest
You better believe it. He took me from ready to steady. The whole thing is crystal clear now. It’s easy to separate the men from the boys for me now.
It’s like getting their foreheads tattooed...”Girls did this to me” hidden in their misguided advice.
They are the epitome of “help” being the covert attempt to get other men to crumble under the great power of OZ (women). Highly destructive. So impregnated by the feminine imperative that they are completely unsalvageable. Utterly.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.