"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Space vs. Sex

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"Having time apart is extremely healthy and keeps a freshness in their relationship. It encourages each person to maintain their own sense of identity while still being a couple, and it fosters independence and strength rather than neediness and clinginess."

more here: http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/lif...ing-relationship-is-space-20121105-28tle.html

I might add, it also builds attraction.

Thoughts, fellow DJ's???
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Your willingness to give a girl space is directly proportional to her respect towards you

This is sadly one of those things that most guys will never "get"
In English are you saying "the more willing you are to give you space, the more she can respect you"?
 

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In English are you saying "the more willing you are to give you space, the more she can respect you"?
oh, the irony...

"Space... the final frontier." - James T. Kirk
 

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This is sadly one of those things that most guys will never "get"
Yes, it helps to "have a life". Most guys are boring, and have zilch going on.

Space could also be translated as "not chasing" or "hanging back (doc love)" or "interested in other things".

She needs her freedom... It's the only way!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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