"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sounding Stupid

crossboss

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Do you know any signs of sounding stupid, in a non-obvious way, because sometimes I say stupid things. Other times I can sound really intelligent, what are warning signs of you going wrong.
I was also wondering of ways to understand subtile communication.
Thanks.

CrossBoss
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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theunflushables

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Stay confident no matter what stupid sh1t comes out of your mouth. If you play it right it will sound like you're being funny instead of stupid.
 

Bible_Belt

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Toastmaster's teaches to never say "ah, uh, um" or anything that is not a word when you are talking. I heard a CEO give a conference call once, and every other word was "um." He sounded like an idiot.

Other than basic speaking skills, you have to work on your think-it-don't-say-it filter. Some people don't have much of a filter, they just blurt out whatever they are thinking.
 

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Difference between sounding stupid vs sounding smart is your own perception.


Unless someone tells you that you sound stupid there is absolutely no reason for you to think you sound stupid. Thus until that happens think you sound smart.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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