"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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blueangel83

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Bluelemond is 16 years old don't listen to the kid. He is still going through puberty.

The kid knows nothing about relationships. I have never even seen him give advice all he does is argue and poke fun at posters.

The people who claim they "KNOW" actually don't know a damn thing because if you DID KNOW then you wouldn't be on this forum in the first place.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by blueangel83
Bluelemond is 16 years old don't listen to the kid. He is still going through puberty.

The kid knows nothing about relationships. I have never even seen him give advice all he does is argue and poke fun at posters.

The people who claim they "KNOW" actually don't know a damn thing because if you DID KNOW then you wouldn't be on this forum in the first place.
So you're on this forum b/c..........
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83
The people who claim they "KNOW" actually don't know a damn thing because if you DID KNOW then you wouldn't be on this forum in the first place.
This isn't entirely true. Many of the top posters here are 'edge junkies'. These are people who are at the top of the game, who are looking for any and every extra edge they can get. They want to maximize their success.


Analogy:
Gym's. Most people who are there are fat & out of shape who are trying to become somewhat healthy.

This doesn't mean everyone who is in the gym 'needs' it because they are fat and out of shape.

Some people are their because they are trying to increase their biceps size by 1/4 of an inch by the next contest. Edge Junkie's.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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blueangel83

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Stop lollipopping bluelemond's 16 year old pecker.

Unfortunately for you, I can be anywhere I want to be :D

It's been 2 years that I've been reading posts from this site. I have only decided to sign up because I've noticed that MOST OF YOU are giving WRONG ADVICE. I thought I would help, but I wouldn't help you, you're an idiot. :cool:
 

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I think even though AFC's give advice, better alpha-males can post stating the AFC advice is sh1t and put their own, more successful views forward - thus showing us how not to do it!
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83
Stop lollipopping bluelemond's 16 year old pecker.

Unfortunately for you, I can be anywhere I want to be :D

It's been 2 years that I've been reading posts from this site. I have only decided to sign up because I've noticed that MOST OF YOU are giving WRONG ADVICE. I thought I would help, but I wouldn't help you, you're an idiot. :cool:
lolipoping huh......hey whats ur number blue angel...hahahahahahahha
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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blueangel83

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HAH! If you really had to maximize your success then you aren't an "edge junkie" to begin with.

Real men who succeed do not need to brag about their success (especially on the internet). Men WHO NEED HELP do because they don't know.

That's where I come in but most of these immature losers ignore my advice, they would rather take advice from someone who knows nothing then pretends to be all knowing to make themselves look good. Not good.
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83
HAH! If you really had to maximize your success then you aren't an "edge junkie" to begin with.

Real men who succeed do not need to brag about their success (especially on the internet). Men WHO NEED HELP do because they don't know.

That's where I come in but most of these immature losers ignore my advice, they would rather take advice from someone who knows nothing then pretends to be all knowing to make themselves look good. Not good.
Then lead the way. Teach me all knowing blueangel83. I want to learn.
 

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Bradshaw claims that these "alpha males" are here to look for an extra edge they can get. THINK ABOUT IT, this board is full of men who want advice (who know nothing) so why in hell would an "alpha male" come to a board full of novices asking for advice?

cuz he himself don't know a damn thing! he's confused!!!

THINK ABOUT IT!

TRUST ME

NEVER look up to "alpha males" most of them know nothing.

They can EASILY pick up women BUT is having a hard time keeping them.

I am reading posts from these so called "alpha males" and THEY ARE WRONG!

So go create your private board, make that 16 year old novice your president who cares!
 

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Blueangel83. We appreciate you TRYING to help and give advice here, but what you are doing is just confusing people. To a woman in Theory, AFC ways are much more romantic, sweet, and nice....which is the type of advice you give. But woman never go for those guys, they go for the alpha bad boy type.

Nobody wants you posting.....dont u have anything better to do in your life?....why are you so consumed in trying to tell us the RIGHT advice?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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We should have a Master Don Juan only form like the Moderate Form.

This way we are almost sure that the advice is good. You'd have to say a lot of Bull Sh*t to get to Master Don Juan without knowing your stuff.

But their was a master who asked the dumbest question on how to appoarch. I MEAN HE'S A FREEKING MASTER !!!
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83
HAH! If you really had to maximize your success then you aren't an "edge junkie" to begin with.
If you are not growing, you are DECAYING. Skills need to be updated. Bodybuilders hit the gym daily. Could you imagine taking 2 years off if you were a professional athlete? You need to improve on a constant basis. Everyone does.

Originally posted by blueangel83
Real men who succeed do not need to brag about their success (especially on the internet). Men WHO NEED HELP do because they don't know.
I wouldn't say that it was bragging. Most 'field report posters' admit to their shortcommings. They ask for advice on their 'sticking points'. Many do this because they can't admit to needing 'help with women' to their friends and family in the real world.

Originally posted by blueangel83
That's where I come in but most of these immature losers ignore my advice, they would rather take advice from someone who knows nothing then pretends to be all knowing to make themselves look good. Not good.
It isn't an attack on you. If you look through the forum, most NEW members who try to give advice are not treated with much respect.
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83

So go create your private board, make that 16 year old novice your president who cares!
Okay, we get it already he's 16!:rolleyes:
 

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blueangel.........


People who come on here are "real men" because they actually know how and why the techniques work. Even a natural Don Juan may get girls but he doesn't know why.

There are guys here who are the best when it comes to getting girls and there are guys who are full of BS (just like you---there is a reason why guys don't take advice from girls anymore)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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