Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Soo...you wanna stop masterbating?

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None of this 60 day no masterbation stuff. Appearently men have 45 day circadian rythems. Stop choking it for 45 days and youll be in a better mood...do it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you spelled masturbating wrong
 

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piranha45 said:
you spelled masturbating wrong
Thank you for pointing that out...im a retard. I promote you to the sosuav spell checkur teem.
 

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The longest I ever went without masturbating was 14 years. The second longest I think was about 2 weeks, after which my balls were going to explode.
 

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damn im good
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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oakraiderz2 said:
None of this 60 day no masterbation stuff. Appearently men have 45 day circadian rythems. Stop choking it for 45 days and youll be in a better mood...do it.
Circadian rythem is 23 hours for every human.
 

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Create Reality said:
The longest I ever went without masturbating was 14 years. The second longest I think was about 2 weeks, after which my balls were going to explode.

haha damn it you almost fooled me with the 14 yrs :crazy:

BUT I GOT IT...that makes TWO of us who didnt jaghl for 14 years.
 

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Phoenix_of_the_ashes said:
Circadian rythem is 23 hours for every human.
Yea, thats what i thought. I dont remember exactly what its called sooo...everyone else can hopefully come bash what i said.
 

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You're probably thinking of "tau," which varies between individuals around 23 hours. If on vacation you constantly find yourself going to bed late and sleeping in, yours might be longer than 24 hours. If naturally fall asleep and wake up early, it might be on the shorter end (like around 22).

There might be hormonal cycle in guys that usually lasts about 45 days -- not sure what it might be though.
 

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I stopped masturbating like 3 months ago, and he's right, I feel so much better. My mood is insanely good, I'm getting all kinds of girls and i'm actually noticing the differences.

Sometimes I remind myself "Dude, that's all you had to do was stop masturbating? You should've done this a LONG time ago."

Trust me, i'm the ****ing man now, I was such a puss a couple years ago. Just stop jacking off and you will become the clear thinking individual you want to be.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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T Money said:
I stopped masturbating like 3 months ago, and he's right, I feel so much better. My mood is insanely good, I'm getting all kinds of girls and i'm actually noticing the differences.

Sometimes I remind myself "Dude, that's all you had to do was stop masturbating? You should've done this a LONG time ago."

Trust me, i'm the ****ing man now, I was such a puss a couple years ago. Just stop jacking off and you will become the clear thinking individual you want to be.

That's what works for you, but you can't generalize.
I'm saying this because when I don't masturbate for 3-4 days, I usually feel worse in lots of aspects and I also do worse with ladies (nothing to do with neediness, since I already have a girlfriend and we fùck more than 10 times a week).
Nonetheless, if I masturbate right before going to bed, the morning after I feel a lot more tired than if I hadn't done it, while this doesn't happen with sex.

I usually masturbate daily, but I've gone through periods when I used to masturbate ON AVERAGE 3-4 times a day for an entire month (not to mention that I fùcked my girlfriend a dozen times a week). I remember I had an even greater sex drive back then.

It seems that the more I have sex, the more I feel the urge to masturbate.

Strange thing, if I live with someone else (meaning there is someone else who sleeps in my same room), I can go on without masturbating and without having sex as much as I want.
 

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Charm&Style said:
haha damn it you almost fooled me with the 14 yrs :crazy:

BUT I GOT IT...that makes TWO of us who didnt jaghl for 14 years.
Hey, let's not jack off together! Whaddaya say?
 

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That ALMOST sounds gay, until you think about it. Then it sounds pretty straight.

But then again, it does sound gay if you REALLY think about it. Ya know?
 

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Create Reality said:
Hey, let's not jack off together! Whaddaya say?

Im Down To Rub Yours... Whaddaya say?


Oh sh!t. I Didnt Say It Right Huh?


:cry:


Tanx for making me look like homo in so suave forum. :(
 

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It was supposed to be making fun of something Diablo said

QUEERS!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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