oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
None of this 60 day no masterbation stuff. Appearently men have 45 day circadian rythems. Stop choking it for 45 days and youll be in a better mood...do it.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thank you for pointing that out...im a retard. I promote you to the sosuav spell checkur teem.piranha45 said:you spelled masturbating wrong
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Circadian rythem is 23 hours for every human.oakraiderz2 said:None of this 60 day no masterbation stuff. Appearently men have 45 day circadian rythems. Stop choking it for 45 days and youll be in a better mood...do it.
Create Reality said:The longest I ever went without masturbating was 14 years. The second longest I think was about 2 weeks, after which my balls were going to explode.
Yea, thats what i thought. I dont remember exactly what its called sooo...everyone else can hopefully come bash what i said.Phoenix_of_the_ashes said:Circadian rythem is 23 hours for every human.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
T Money said:I stopped masturbating like 3 months ago, and he's right, I feel so much better. My mood is insanely good, I'm getting all kinds of girls and i'm actually noticing the differences.
Sometimes I remind myself "Dude, that's all you had to do was stop masturbating? You should've done this a LONG time ago."
Trust me, i'm the ****ing man now, I was such a puss a couple years ago. Just stop jacking off and you will become the clear thinking individual you want to be.
Hey, let's not jack off together! Whaddaya say?Charm&Style said:haha damn it you almost fooled me with the 14 yrs :crazy:
BUT I GOT IT...that makes TWO of us who didnt jaghl for 14 years.
Create Reality said:Hey, let's not jack off together! Whaddaya say?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.