oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
None of this 60 day no masterbation stuff. Appearently men have 45 day circadian rythems. Stop choking it for 45 days and youll be in a better mood...do it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Soo...you wanna stop masterbating?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Thank you for pointing that out...im a retard. I promote you to the sosuav spell checkur teem.piranha45 said:
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
The longest I ever went without masturbating was 14 years. The second longest I think was about 2 weeks, after which my balls were going to explode.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
Circadian rythem is 23 hours for every human.oakraiderz2 said:
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Create Reality said:
haha damn it you almost fooled me with the 14 yrs :crazy:
BUT I GOT IT...that makes TWO of us who didnt jaghl for 14 years.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Yea, thats what i thought. I dont remember exactly what its called sooo...everyone else can hopefully come bash what i said.Phoenix_of_the_ashes said:
You're probably thinking of "tau," which varies between individuals around 23 hours. If on vacation you constantly find yourself going to bed late and sleeping in, yours might be longer than 24 hours. If naturally fall asleep and wake up early, it might be on the shorter end (like around 22).
There might be hormonal cycle in guys that usually lasts about 45 days -- not sure what it might be though.
There might be hormonal cycle in guys that usually lasts about 45 days -- not sure what it might be though.
T Money
Senior Don Juan
I stopped masturbating like 3 months ago, and he's right, I feel so much better. My mood is insanely good, I'm getting all kinds of girls and i'm actually noticing the differences.
Sometimes I remind myself "Dude, that's all you had to do was stop masturbating? You should've done this a LONG time ago."
Trust me, i'm the ****ing man now, I was such a puss a couple years ago. Just stop jacking off and you will become the clear thinking individual you want to be.
Sometimes I remind myself "Dude, that's all you had to do was stop masturbating? You should've done this a LONG time ago."
Trust me, i'm the ****ing man now, I was such a puss a couple years ago. Just stop jacking off and you will become the clear thinking individual you want to be.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
T Money said:
That's what works for you, but you can't generalize.
I'm saying this because when I don't masturbate for 3-4 days, I usually feel worse in lots of aspects and I also do worse with ladies (nothing to do with neediness, since I already have a girlfriend and we fùck more than 10 times a week).
Nonetheless, if I masturbate right before going to bed, the morning after I feel a lot more tired than if I hadn't done it, while this doesn't happen with sex.
I usually masturbate daily, but I've gone through periods when I used to masturbate ON AVERAGE 3-4 times a day for an entire month (not to mention that I fùcked my girlfriend a dozen times a week). I remember I had an even greater sex drive back then.
It seems that the more I have sex, the more I feel the urge to masturbate.
Strange thing, if I live with someone else (meaning there is someone else who sleeps in my same room), I can go on without masturbating and without having sex as much as I want.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
Hey, let's not jack off together! Whaddaya say?Charm&Style said:
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
That ALMOST sounds gay, until you think about it. Then it sounds pretty straight.
But then again, it does sound gay if you REALLY think about it. Ya know?
But then again, it does sound gay if you REALLY think about it. Ya know?
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Create Reality said:
Im Down To Rub Yours... Whaddaya say?
Oh sh!t. I Didnt Say It Right Huh?
Tanx for making me look like homo in so suave forum.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
It was supposed to be making fun of something Diablo said
QUEERS!
QUEERS!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.