"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Songs you work out/lift to.
- Thread starter rhcp83
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
women haze
Senior Don Juan
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Final Fantasy 13 - Summon music
Big Pun - brave in the heart
Tekken 6 soundtrack - City after dark, temple music
Tekken 5 DR - Menu Music stage
Tekken Tag tournament - Schoolyard, Eddy Gordo's stage, hwaorang's stage
Scribe - Not many
Scribe - Stop the music
Eminem - Till I collapse
Youngbloodz - Imma shine
Roy Jones Jnr - Can't be touched
Fort Minor - Remember the name
30 seconds to mars - This is war
Ka mate - All blacks (Rugby union) haka
Kapa o panga - All blacks haka
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
marmel75
Master Don Juan
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Kanye West-Jesus Walks
Nickelback-Savin Me
Tinie Tempah-Written in the Stars
Metallica-Enter Sandman
Rocky IV Soundtrack
DeadMau5-Ghosts N Stuff(Obleezy Extended Edit)
Mia Martina- Burnin'
Bloods N Crips-Steady Dippin
Naughty By Nature-Uptown Anthem
Danzig-Mother
nmartinez12443
Senior Don Juan
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I personally go with pandora/slacker. They do a GREAT job mixing songs and you don't have to waste rest/lifting time, looking for songs
favorite playlists are:
- scooter (house/techno)
-Lil Wayne (rap)
-Jedi Mind Tricks (rap)
-LMAO (party songs)
- Gucci Mane (rap)
- slipknot (hardcore rock)
- 80's
- Wu Tang Clan (mellowing out)
As far as songs these are my favorites:
What the F_CK- House Song
Sexy and I know it- LMAO
Best Around- Karate Kid Soundtrack
300 violin orchesta
Any Rocky Song
Rollin- Lil Wayne
N!GGAS in Paris- TI Remix
Racks- Wiz Khalifa
Put-On- Kanye West
B!tch Please- Jay Z
Big Pimpin- Jay Z
Don't Make Me- 8 Ball MJD
Racks- Lil Wayne
F__Ck Y'll Ho3s- 3 6 Mafia
Huffman
Master Don Juan
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I don't know why, but some days you're just angry and it fuels the workout. Perfect for venting aggression, and also it makes you go all out on the training.
Have to be careful though with some exercises because you can easily injure yourself if you're too aggressive.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.