"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Songs you work out/lift to.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
women haze
Senior Don Juan
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Final Fantasy 13 - Summon music
Big Pun - brave in the heart
Tekken 6 soundtrack - City after dark, temple music
Tekken 5 DR - Menu Music stage
Tekken Tag tournament - Schoolyard, Eddy Gordo's stage, hwaorang's stage
Scribe - Not many
Scribe - Stop the music
Eminem - Till I collapse
Youngbloodz - Imma shine
Roy Jones Jnr - Can't be touched
Fort Minor - Remember the name
30 seconds to mars - This is war
Ka mate - All blacks (Rugby union) haka
Kapa o panga - All blacks haka
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
marmel75
Master Don Juan
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Kanye West-Jesus Walks
Nickelback-Savin Me
Tinie Tempah-Written in the Stars
Metallica-Enter Sandman
Rocky IV Soundtrack
DeadMau5-Ghosts N Stuff(Obleezy Extended Edit)
Mia Martina- Burnin'
Bloods N Crips-Steady Dippin
Naughty By Nature-Uptown Anthem
Danzig-Mother
nmartinez12443
Senior Don Juan
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- Jul 23, 2008
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I personally go with pandora/slacker. They do a GREAT job mixing songs and you don't have to waste rest/lifting time, looking for songs
favorite playlists are:
- scooter (house/techno)
-Lil Wayne (rap)
-Jedi Mind Tricks (rap)
-LMAO (party songs)
- Gucci Mane (rap)
- slipknot (hardcore rock)
- 80's
- Wu Tang Clan (mellowing out)
As far as songs these are my favorites:
What the F_CK- House Song
Sexy and I know it- LMAO
Best Around- Karate Kid Soundtrack
300 violin orchesta
Any Rocky Song
Rollin- Lil Wayne
N!GGAS in Paris- TI Remix
Racks- Wiz Khalifa
Put-On- Kanye West
B!tch Please- Jay Z
Big Pimpin- Jay Z
Don't Make Me- 8 Ball MJD
Racks- Lil Wayne
F__Ck Y'll Ho3s- 3 6 Mafia
Huffman
Master Don Juan
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- Messages
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I don't know why, but some days you're just angry and it fuels the workout. Perfect for venting aggression, and also it makes you go all out on the training.
Have to be careful though with some exercises because you can easily injure yourself if you're too aggressive.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.