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Master Don Juan
I had to ask the barista what song it was a few years ago and this one seems to be popular. What about you guys, anyone have a similar experience?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Songs you keep hearing over and over at Coffee shops and cafes
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Still here stuck in South East Asia, I wish I can board a flight and head out to San Antonio and hear a local blues band jam out to a Few Stones and Bad Company covers at a cafe or something
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why stuck.... ??
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This was supposed to be a romantic mecca too.
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it can be.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Master Don Juan
It's great, I've met a lot of great people here. I'm a retired Disabled Air Force Veteran currently taking care of my parents, they have a lot of health problems. We take care of each other and at times there a great source of support, Im just here waiting on my Dad whose a retired architect/engineer to finish off one of his building projects that he's been given as a favor, my parents own their own Hotel out here and I'm thankful to have that because thats my main source of social life out here. That and my regular dates on Tinder and meet ups.
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I keep hearing this one, that's because I play it full blast whenever I see a hot babe and sit down next to her and act like I'm looking at something behind her while wearing a top hat, shades and a raincoat. Even if it's in the middle of summer.