"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Songs you keep hearing over and over at Coffee shops and cafes

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I had to ask the barista what song it was a few years ago and this one seems to be popular. What about you guys, anyone have a similar experience?

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Still here stuck in South East Asia, I wish I can board a flight and head out to San Antonio and hear a local blues band jam out to a Few Stones and Bad Company covers at a cafe or something
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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It's great, I've met a lot of great people here. I'm a retired Disabled Air Force Veteran currently taking care of my parents, they have a lot of health problems. We take care of each other and at times there a great source of support, Im just here waiting on my Dad whose a retired architect/engineer to finish off one of his building projects that he's been given as a favor, my parents own their own Hotel out here and I'm thankful to have that because thats my main source of social life out here. That and my regular dates on Tinder and meet ups.
 

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I keep hearing this one, that's because I play it full blast whenever I see a hot babe and sit down next to her and act like I'm looking at something behind her while wearing a top hat, shades and a raincoat. Even if it's in the middle of summer.

 
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