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I had to ask the barista what song it was a few years ago and this one seems to be popular. What about you guys, anyone have a similar experience?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Songs you keep hearing over and over at Coffee shops and cafes
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Still here stuck in South East Asia, I wish I can board a flight and head out to San Antonio and hear a local blues band jam out to a Few Stones and Bad Company covers at a cafe or something
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This was supposed to be a romantic mecca too.
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it can be.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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It's great, I've met a lot of great people here. I'm a retired Disabled Air Force Veteran currently taking care of my parents, they have a lot of health problems. We take care of each other and at times there a great source of support, Im just here waiting on my Dad whose a retired architect/engineer to finish off one of his building projects that he's been given as a favor, my parents own their own Hotel out here and I'm thankful to have that because thats my main source of social life out here. That and my regular dates on Tinder and meet ups.
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I keep hearing this one, that's because I play it full blast whenever I see a hot babe and sit down next to her and act like I'm looking at something behind her while wearing a top hat, shades and a raincoat. Even if it's in the middle of summer.