"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sometimes it's about chemistry

jnMissouri

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We all know women are picky, fickle, attraction is different for each of them. One thing I can't help but always notice...attractive Asian women are often with the weakest most beta looking Asian men...

Then there are Asian women who don't date Asian men and prefer masculine non-asian men...My Asian buddies say Asian women don't want to date them. A lot of Asian women I've dated also don't date Asian men....

I've seen dynamics such as this in person everywhere, and have kept running across videos like this that further make me think about it...https://youtube.com/shorts/O6OzOednW5M?si=sRKvxJNHvq9TYIWH
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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RazorRambo24

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It's ALWAYS about chemistry, not just sometimes.
Even in superficial relationships, its about chemistry - without the chemistry it will never work or last very long.

Even in cases where you are not compatible in other ways, the sexual chemistry has to be there. I mean that the basis of most FWB relationships.. you usually dont always get along with the person or would hang out with them otherwise but if the sex is good you keep it working until it doesn't anymore.

and "weakest most beta looking asian men". Not only does saying stuff like that make you sound like someone who lacks respect. -- I would say this: Never underestimate people, its a foolish thing to do. I mean if you posted a pic of yourself im sure there would be people out there who might say you're ugly, weak , look like x or y,.. Just not how real men should operate.
 

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Hi JN Missouri,
Rambo is on the Money.....Pecuniary motivation aside,that indefinable attraction we call "chemistry" is always most the most important factor in initial attraction....With S.E and N.Asian Women,they must temper their appetites,as Family approval is most important,just being tall and having a steady income comes next with the Northerners having a Pale skin is very important too...@Uber is a Guru on Yellow Fever LOL.
 
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