"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sometimes it's about chemistry

jnMissouri

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We all know women are picky, fickle, attraction is different for each of them. One thing I can't help but always notice...attractive Asian women are often with the weakest most beta looking Asian men...

Then there are Asian women who don't date Asian men and prefer masculine non-asian men...My Asian buddies say Asian women don't want to date them. A lot of Asian women I've dated also don't date Asian men....

I've seen dynamics such as this in person everywhere, and have kept running across videos like this that further make me think about it...https://youtube.com/shorts/O6OzOednW5M?si=sRKvxJNHvq9TYIWH
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's ALWAYS about chemistry, not just sometimes.
Even in superficial relationships, its about chemistry - without the chemistry it will never work or last very long.

Even in cases where you are not compatible in other ways, the sexual chemistry has to be there. I mean that the basis of most FWB relationships.. you usually dont always get along with the person or would hang out with them otherwise but if the sex is good you keep it working until it doesn't anymore.

and "weakest most beta looking asian men". Not only does saying stuff like that make you sound like someone who lacks respect. -- I would say this: Never underestimate people, its a foolish thing to do. I mean if you posted a pic of yourself im sure there would be people out there who might say you're ugly, weak , look like x or y,.. Just not how real men should operate.
 

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Hi JN Missouri,
Rambo is on the Money.....Pecuniary motivation aside,that indefinable attraction we call "chemistry" is always most the most important factor in initial attraction....With S.E and N.Asian Women,they must temper their appetites,as Family approval is most important,just being tall and having a steady income comes next with the Northerners having a Pale skin is very important too...@Uber is a Guru on Yellow Fever LOL.
 
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