This is not a situation that I am in but I am throwing it out for thought as it could happen to any of us. This site is all about helping us score the hottest women. Suppose you land a perfect 10, get steady and have sex regularly. Maybe you get married maybe you don't. Then she gets in a car accident, burns up her skin and is paralyzed for life. Where do you THINK you would go from there? I say THINK because obviously you may think differently if you actually were is such a situation.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Something to think about
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lizardking82
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I think it's shallow to describe this site as a means to get hot women. Maybe that, too, but definitely not only.
And from there I can tell you I personally never go for a woman whose strongest asset is her hotness. How about emotional stability? Being able to communicate? Some guys here overpass this and then wonder why they got problems with these "hot" women.
And from there I can tell you I personally never go for a woman whose strongest asset is her hotness. How about emotional stability? Being able to communicate? Some guys here overpass this and then wonder why they got problems with these "hot" women.
There are a few noisy posters who preach nothing but hotness but most of us here just don't operate on that level, particularly the older vets. Also, if all you're doing is hooking up with women, then going for the hottest you can makes sense. I don't think anyone here would confuse the two. It's kind of like sports fishing versus fishing to eat. Some guys just want the chase, other guys want the whole deal.
To answer your question though, I like to think I'd obviously stick with her. If we'd made it to marriage then she'd be one of my best friends and so I wouldn't abandon that. I wouldn't be getting married to anyone less. That said, something like that can really shake up a person and show what they're really made of so who knows?
To answer your question though, I like to think I'd obviously stick with her. If we'd made it to marriage then she'd be one of my best friends and so I wouldn't abandon that. I wouldn't be getting married to anyone less. That said, something like that can really shake up a person and show what they're really made of so who knows?
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I work with older people.... I have seen the ravages of dementia and other diseases and how it affects everybody in the household. The surviving spouse or partner often goes down with the sick one. It is not love it is necessity... It is very unfair.
In almost every case I see nothing but growing anger and resentment...
I will tell you that after years of seeing this I personally if at all possible not be a burden to anyone. I will "check out" if I can.
In almost every case I see nothing but growing anger and resentment...
I will tell you that after years of seeing this I personally if at all possible not be a burden to anyone. I will "check out" if I can.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wifehunter
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"Something to think about"
or not.
or not.
ChristopherColumbus
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Married? For better or worse, for richer or poorer....
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One more reason to not believe in marriage