This is not a situation that I am in but I am throwing it out for thought as it could happen to any of us. This site is all about helping us score the hottest women. Suppose you land a perfect 10, get steady and have sex regularly. Maybe you get married maybe you don't. Then she gets in a car accident, burns up her skin and is paralyzed for life. Where do you THINK you would go from there? I say THINK because obviously you may think differently if you actually were is such a situation.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Something to think about
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
lizardking82
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I think it's shallow to describe this site as a means to get hot women. Maybe that, too, but definitely not only.
And from there I can tell you I personally never go for a woman whose strongest asset is her hotness. How about emotional stability? Being able to communicate? Some guys here overpass this and then wonder why they got problems with these "hot" women.
And from there I can tell you I personally never go for a woman whose strongest asset is her hotness. How about emotional stability? Being able to communicate? Some guys here overpass this and then wonder why they got problems with these "hot" women.
There are a few noisy posters who preach nothing but hotness but most of us here just don't operate on that level, particularly the older vets. Also, if all you're doing is hooking up with women, then going for the hottest you can makes sense. I don't think anyone here would confuse the two. It's kind of like sports fishing versus fishing to eat. Some guys just want the chase, other guys want the whole deal.
To answer your question though, I like to think I'd obviously stick with her. If we'd made it to marriage then she'd be one of my best friends and so I wouldn't abandon that. I wouldn't be getting married to anyone less. That said, something like that can really shake up a person and show what they're really made of so who knows?
To answer your question though, I like to think I'd obviously stick with her. If we'd made it to marriage then she'd be one of my best friends and so I wouldn't abandon that. I wouldn't be getting married to anyone less. That said, something like that can really shake up a person and show what they're really made of so who knows?
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I work with older people.... I have seen the ravages of dementia and other diseases and how it affects everybody in the household. The surviving spouse or partner often goes down with the sick one. It is not love it is necessity... It is very unfair.
In almost every case I see nothing but growing anger and resentment...
I will tell you that after years of seeing this I personally if at all possible not be a burden to anyone. I will "check out" if I can.
In almost every case I see nothing but growing anger and resentment...
I will tell you that after years of seeing this I personally if at all possible not be a burden to anyone. I will "check out" if I can.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
wifehunter
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"Something to think about"
or not.
or not.
ChristopherColumbus
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Married? For better or worse, for richer or poorer....
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One more reason to not believe in marriage