"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nobody

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I don't have anything. I'm confident around people (not around extremely hott girls, but there aren't any in my vacinity), I'm somewhat funny, I can draw the attention of the whole classs. But that's just it, I think I'm everyone's acquitance. Whenever I try to lure someone to be a good friend, they got other friends. Whenever I invite people out, the plans always drop (happened 4 different times). I'm in all the nerd classes, but the nerds hate me because I'm confident. My normal classes, I'm not in with the popular kids and don't hang out with them enough that I'm a nobody. I seem to have fallen in between the cracks. That's why I haven't hung out with anyone since I broke up with my girlfriend back in December. :rolleyes: My class is 300, probably 130 of them guys. Maybe 40 of them considered popular in the whole class, and 20 of them were probably at my middle school where they didn't like me. It just kills me that I read the myspaces of these kids, and they're all hanging out at the beach. I'm, however, reading a DonJuan message board.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nobody

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Then I never got a cellphone till last week. I don't have a car. I go to a private school, and public school kids around me freak me out. I can't wait till college when I can start a new life, eat properly, be able to go to a gym, and bang chicks. HS and living with my parents is too restricting.
 

WC2

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Don't sweat it man. High School is small beans. Once you get to college or into life, you're going find out people aren't so cliquish. You don't need a group. Get a few good friends and thats all you need. Make your own plans and be your own man.
 

BBX

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Welcome to my life. I'm your new best friend. hi. But sersly just go with it and it will fall into place.
 

Porky

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the nerds hate you because you're "confident"?

No. figure out the real reason
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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