"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nobody

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I don't have anything. I'm confident around people (not around extremely hott girls, but there aren't any in my vacinity), I'm somewhat funny, I can draw the attention of the whole classs. But that's just it, I think I'm everyone's acquitance. Whenever I try to lure someone to be a good friend, they got other friends. Whenever I invite people out, the plans always drop (happened 4 different times). I'm in all the nerd classes, but the nerds hate me because I'm confident. My normal classes, I'm not in with the popular kids and don't hang out with them enough that I'm a nobody. I seem to have fallen in between the cracks. That's why I haven't hung out with anyone since I broke up with my girlfriend back in December. :rolleyes: My class is 300, probably 130 of them guys. Maybe 40 of them considered popular in the whole class, and 20 of them were probably at my middle school where they didn't like me. It just kills me that I read the myspaces of these kids, and they're all hanging out at the beach. I'm, however, reading a DonJuan message board.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nobody

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Then I never got a cellphone till last week. I don't have a car. I go to a private school, and public school kids around me freak me out. I can't wait till college when I can start a new life, eat properly, be able to go to a gym, and bang chicks. HS and living with my parents is too restricting.
 

WC2

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Don't sweat it man. High School is small beans. Once you get to college or into life, you're going find out people aren't so cliquish. You don't need a group. Get a few good friends and thats all you need. Make your own plans and be your own man.
 

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Welcome to my life. I'm your new best friend. hi. But sersly just go with it and it will fall into place.
 

Porky

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the nerds hate you because you're "confident"?

No. figure out the real reason
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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