"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't have anything. I'm confident around people (not around extremely hott girls, but there aren't any in my vacinity), I'm somewhat funny, I can draw the attention of the whole classs. But that's just it, I think I'm everyone's acquitance. Whenever I try to lure someone to be a good friend, they got other friends. Whenever I invite people out, the plans always drop (happened 4 different times). I'm in all the nerd classes, but the nerds hate me because I'm confident. My normal classes, I'm not in with the popular kids and don't hang out with them enough that I'm a nobody. I seem to have fallen in between the cracks. That's why I haven't hung out with anyone since I broke up with my girlfriend back in December. :rolleyes: My class is 300, probably 130 of them guys. Maybe 40 of them considered popular in the whole class, and 20 of them were probably at my middle school where they didn't like me. It just kills me that I read the myspaces of these kids, and they're all hanging out at the beach. I'm, however, reading a DonJuan message board.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Then I never got a cellphone till last week. I don't have a car. I go to a private school, and public school kids around me freak me out. I can't wait till college when I can start a new life, eat properly, be able to go to a gym, and bang chicks. HS and living with my parents is too restricting.
 

WC2

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Don't sweat it man. High School is small beans. Once you get to college or into life, you're going find out people aren't so cliquish. You don't need a group. Get a few good friends and thats all you need. Make your own plans and be your own man.
 

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Welcome to my life. I'm your new best friend. hi. But sersly just go with it and it will fall into place.
 

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the nerds hate you because you're "confident"?

No. figure out the real reason
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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