"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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someone's courting my girl

DJ Alejandro

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someone's courting my girl. he knows that she has a boyfriend.

he SMSs my girl. some examples would be.

him: hi, how have you been? juz finished cleaning the car.
her: ah... ive been okay.

you see, they're prom dates so we can't get around that. i just let them be.

him: i had a bad day today. im not feeling well.
her: why, what happened?
him: my dad and i argued. he got mad cuz the car...
her: blah blah blah... :rolleyes: (her expression)
him: ei, i gotta go. im still driving tomorrow morning.
her: :eek:

he occasionally sends her some snicker bars. i complained. naturally. i told her to ask for 2 bars next time. cuz we couldn't make do with just one. hehe :p

im not really worried if she's gonna cheat on me. that's just not her. and besides, im not really giving her any reason to.

any comments? anyone?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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whoa

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I'm not much aof a dj (yet) but how the hell did you lose your "girl" to another guy for prom? I also note that the dj bible says not to whine or complain, it's a sign of weakness. But is this a ltr or just a lil "fling." If its an ltr, you got some work to do.
 

DJ Alejandro

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wel, cuz im already in college so cant really help it. my bro's wanna kick his arse. i dont find any reason to. what do you think?
 

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i like how u acted all cool while mainting your alpha status by saying "ask him to send 2 snicker bars next time"
:cool:
 

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Yo dumbass wtf?

Unless she goes to school in china, youre allowed to bring people from other schools, or colleges.

Honestly dude next her. That is some of the biggest bull**** ive ever heard in my life. Unless you JUST started dating and the prom is tomorrow....


get rid of her bro, or in 3 months 6 months, a year, 2 years, you will regret not doing it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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