"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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someone's courting my girl

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DJ Alejandro

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someone's courting my girl. he knows that she has a boyfriend.

he SMSs my girl. some examples would be.

him: hi, how have you been? juz finished cleaning the car.
her: ah... ive been okay.

you see, they're prom dates so we can't get around that. i just let them be.

him: i had a bad day today. im not feeling well.
her: why, what happened?
him: my dad and i argued. he got mad cuz the car...
her: blah blah blah... :rolleyes: (her expression)
him: ei, i gotta go. im still driving tomorrow morning.
her: :eek:

he occasionally sends her some snicker bars. i complained. naturally. i told her to ask for 2 bars next time. cuz we couldn't make do with just one. hehe :p

im not really worried if she's gonna cheat on me. that's just not her. and besides, im not really giving her any reason to.

any comments? anyone?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm not much aof a dj (yet) but how the hell did you lose your "girl" to another guy for prom? I also note that the dj bible says not to whine or complain, it's a sign of weakness. But is this a ltr or just a lil "fling." If its an ltr, you got some work to do.
 
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wel, cuz im already in college so cant really help it. my bro's wanna kick his arse. i dont find any reason to. what do you think?
 
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i like how u acted all cool while mainting your alpha status by saying "ask him to send 2 snicker bars next time"
:cool:
 
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Yo dumbass wtf?

Unless she goes to school in china, youre allowed to bring people from other schools, or colleges.

Honestly dude next her. That is some of the biggest bull**** ive ever heard in my life. Unless you JUST started dating and the prom is tomorrow....


get rid of her bro, or in 3 months 6 months, a year, 2 years, you will regret not doing it
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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