"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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someone's courting my girl

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DJ Alejandro

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someone's courting my girl. he knows that she has a boyfriend.

he SMSs my girl. some examples would be.

him: hi, how have you been? juz finished cleaning the car.
her: ah... ive been okay.

you see, they're prom dates so we can't get around that. i just let them be.

him: i had a bad day today. im not feeling well.
her: why, what happened?
him: my dad and i argued. he got mad cuz the car...
her: blah blah blah... :rolleyes: (her expression)
him: ei, i gotta go. im still driving tomorrow morning.
her: :eek:

he occasionally sends her some snicker bars. i complained. naturally. i told her to ask for 2 bars next time. cuz we couldn't make do with just one. hehe :p

im not really worried if she's gonna cheat on me. that's just not her. and besides, im not really giving her any reason to.

any comments? anyone?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm not much aof a dj (yet) but how the hell did you lose your "girl" to another guy for prom? I also note that the dj bible says not to whine or complain, it's a sign of weakness. But is this a ltr or just a lil "fling." If its an ltr, you got some work to do.
 
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wel, cuz im already in college so cant really help it. my bro's wanna kick his arse. i dont find any reason to. what do you think?
 
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i like how u acted all cool while mainting your alpha status by saying "ask him to send 2 snicker bars next time"
:cool:
 
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Yo dumbass wtf?

Unless she goes to school in china, youre allowed to bring people from other schools, or colleges.

Honestly dude next her. That is some of the biggest bull**** ive ever heard in my life. Unless you JUST started dating and the prom is tomorrow....


get rid of her bro, or in 3 months 6 months, a year, 2 years, you will regret not doing it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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