Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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someone's courting my girl

DJ Alejandro

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someone's courting my girl. he knows that she has a boyfriend.

he SMSs my girl. some examples would be.

him: hi, how have you been? juz finished cleaning the car.
her: ah... ive been okay.

you see, they're prom dates so we can't get around that. i just let them be.

him: i had a bad day today. im not feeling well.
her: why, what happened?
him: my dad and i argued. he got mad cuz the car...
her: blah blah blah... :rolleyes: (her expression)
him: ei, i gotta go. im still driving tomorrow morning.
her: :eek:

he occasionally sends her some snicker bars. i complained. naturally. i told her to ask for 2 bars next time. cuz we couldn't make do with just one. hehe :p

im not really worried if she's gonna cheat on me. that's just not her. and besides, im not really giving her any reason to.

any comments? anyone?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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whoa

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I'm not much aof a dj (yet) but how the hell did you lose your "girl" to another guy for prom? I also note that the dj bible says not to whine or complain, it's a sign of weakness. But is this a ltr or just a lil "fling." If its an ltr, you got some work to do.
 

DJ Alejandro

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wel, cuz im already in college so cant really help it. my bro's wanna kick his arse. i dont find any reason to. what do you think?
 

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i like how u acted all cool while mainting your alpha status by saying "ask him to send 2 snicker bars next time"
:cool:
 

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Yo dumbass wtf?

Unless she goes to school in china, youre allowed to bring people from other schools, or colleges.

Honestly dude next her. That is some of the biggest bull**** ive ever heard in my life. Unless you JUST started dating and the prom is tomorrow....


get rid of her bro, or in 3 months 6 months, a year, 2 years, you will regret not doing it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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