Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Oh yeah!
Seeking validation is not the way. I´ve been in a similar case and this kind of thing just heal with time, not with beers, a bunch of wh0res, etc.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
well its true but if i had another gf or something id think it would be easier.Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
Oh yeah!
This is the same as saying to drink a lot of beer in order to forget a woman.
Seeking validation is not the way. I´ve been in a similar case and this kind of thing just heal with time, not with beers, a bunch of wh0res, etc.
That´s my point of view.
Hahahaha, from reading your first post I believe thefonz said it best!!!