You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Oh yeah!
Seeking validation is not the way. I´ve been in a similar case and this kind of thing just heal with time, not with beers, a bunch of wh0res, etc.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
well its true but if i had another gf or something id think it would be easier.Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
Oh yeah!
This is the same as saying to drink a lot of beer in order to forget a woman.
Seeking validation is not the way. I´ve been in a similar case and this kind of thing just heal with time, not with beers, a bunch of wh0res, etc.
That´s my point of view.
Hahahaha, from reading your first post I believe thefonz said it best!!!