She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Oh yeah!
Seeking validation is not the way. I´ve been in a similar case and this kind of thing just heal with time, not with beers, a bunch of wh0res, etc.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
well its true but if i had another gf or something id think it would be easier.Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
Oh yeah!
This is the same as saying to drink a lot of beer in order to forget a woman.
Seeking validation is not the way. I´ve been in a similar case and this kind of thing just heal with time, not with beers, a bunch of wh0res, etc.
That´s my point of view.
Hahahaha, from reading your first post I believe thefonz said it best!!!