Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Oh yeah!
Seeking validation is not the way. I´ve been in a similar case and this kind of thing just heal with time, not with beers, a bunch of wh0res, etc.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
well its true but if i had another gf or something id think it would be easier.Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
Oh yeah!
This is the same as saying to drink a lot of beer in order to forget a woman.
Seeking validation is not the way. I´ve been in a similar case and this kind of thing just heal with time, not with beers, a bunch of wh0res, etc.
That´s my point of view.
Hahahaha, from reading your first post I believe thefonz said it best!!!