"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Someone give me strength

Blue Phoenix

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Originally posted by AlwaysExcel
As they say on mASF, GO OUT AND FVCK TEN OTHER WOMEN!!
Oh yeah! :rolleyes:

This is the same as saying to drink a lot of beer in order to forget a woman.

Originally posted by AlwaysExcel
And sure, you may still miss her and may not like the other women as much, but having sex is a lot more empowering and validating than watching her makeout with her new BF in front of you.
Seeking validation is not the way. I´ve been in a similar case and this kind of thing just heal with time, not with beers, a bunch of wh0res, etc.

That´s my point of view.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Swede54

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Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
Oh yeah! :rolleyes:

This is the same as saying to drink a lot of beer in order to forget a woman.



Seeking validation is not the way. I´ve been in a similar case and this kind of thing just heal with time, not with beers, a bunch of wh0res, etc.

That´s my point of view.
well its true but if i had another gf or something id think it would be easier.
 
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Originally posted by thefonz
maybe she doesn't like your band
Hahahaha, from reading your first post I believe thefonz said it best!!!
 
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