"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
We temp banned her (30 days) and she hasn't been back after her time-out expired.
Do you think she was representative of average women though? I don't think so at all. The reason so few women hang out among us beasts is that it is not in their nature to do so.
Do you think she was representative of average women though? I don't think so at all. The reason so few women hang out among us beasts is that it is not in their nature to do so.
Papa_smu
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Why the temp ban?
Who Dares Win
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Probably posting with a second nick.
Snake-eyes
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Why would you want a female with her opinions on a all male space?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Exactly... So you want a fish to tell you how to place your bait so you can catch it? Not going to happen. If that was the case, my 2 sisters would have help me get some of their sexy friends... That never happens.
backseatjuan
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Yeah because women do most of the shaming, name calling, psychological games. And mostly but lastly manipulation games within them. They can see this with out a doubt. While men give them exactly what they are looking for. Remember this....slut shaming didn’t came from men, it came from other women as intrasexual disqualification
redskinsfan92
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Good riddance
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Kotaix
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I do agree with Julian, why the ban? I'd appreciate transparency on this topic.
I do know a few women who are red-pill, and they are usually extremely neurotic. They realize that their minds are beyond their control at times, and they hate it. I even have a female coworker who feels bad for anyone who has a daughter because she understands the chaos that women are, and she realizes her own nature.
No one can be free from the chaos of their own mind, and that includes men. It takes YEARS of practice to control your mind.
I do know a few women who are red-pill, and they are usually extremely neurotic. They realize that their minds are beyond their control at times, and they hate it. I even have a female coworker who feels bad for anyone who has a daughter because she understands the chaos that women are, and she realizes her own nature.
No one can be free from the chaos of their own mind, and that includes men. It takes YEARS of practice to control your mind.
Atom Smasher
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Absolutely not. The reasons are private and between the mods and the members only. It's nobody else's business.
People get themselves banned for repeatedly violating rules that they agreed to when they signed up.
@Julian and @Kotaix, clearly you both need a reminder of the rules that you agreed to. They are posted for your review at the top of most of the forums. If you disagree I advise you to find another forum that better suites your temperament. You're free to stay or go.
People get themselves banned for repeatedly violating rules that they agreed to when they signed up.
@Julian and @Kotaix, clearly you both need a reminder of the rules that you agreed to. They are posted for your review at the top of most of the forums. If you disagree I advise you to find another forum that better suites your temperament. You're free to stay or go.
Atom Smasher
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Allow me to help you out:
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That’s a good thing, in some cases Mods have to delete posts and warn or ban members when they post inappropriate content before you can see it…
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
RickTheToad
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Was it because she refused to show her rack? ;'p