"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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...someone should ban women who don't give head
Someone should make that a requirement for women in order for them to become feminist... :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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someone should ban porn that takes too long to get to the action
 

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Someone should tell women with muffin tops that they should not wear low rise jeans.
 

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what's a muffin top? is it the same as a the biscut right whe..oh i get it.. never mind

someone should tell guys to stop trying to date women after they justify why they "had to" cheat on their last 10 boyfriends
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Someone should tell women with muffin tops that they should not wear low rise jeans.
Someone should go around with a red permanent marker and draw a big X on exposed muffin tops. Better yet, they should draw a circle with a slash through it, like one would see on a "no parking" or "no smoking" sign... as if to advise the general public that "muffin tops are prohibited here."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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someone should make thoose glow in the dark stamps and stamp them on womens heads so when you go in the club, it will light up on their forehead

"easy"

"Aids"

"claps"

"doesn't give head"

etc
 

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Someone should tell women that if they must bring a handbag or purse on a date, they should also have some money in it.
 

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…pass a law that marriage licenses automatically expire every year unless renewed by both parties…..
 

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backbreaker said:
actually I kinda dig flip flops on the right girl.. she has to have pretty feet though
I agree.
 

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Someone should create an universal stamp that does the big red X and the green glow in the dark "easy","aids","clap",...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Someone should direct millions of dollars of capital toward the development of the STD breathalyzer.
 

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grinder said:
…pass a law that marriage licenses automatically expire every year unless renewed by both parties…..

:rockon:

somebody should make it a constitutional amendment that the dave chapelle show and the sopranos have to air a new eposide every week
 

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…pass a law that marriage licenses automatically expire every year unless renewed by both parties…..
Ohhhhhh... I'm going to bring up this concept in class tomorrow! This will certainly spur a good conversation! :up:
 

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Someone should direct millions of dollars of capital toward the development of the STD breathalyzer.
How about something like those portable drug identification kits that cops carry. Get some of her saliva, put it in the kit, if it turns blue, turn and run quick! :p
 

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Somebody should invent Solar Powered Cars...damn gas prices.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I also give flip-flops the thumbs-up. I'd rather the gal have sexy feet than sexy shoes. But some of those hippie shoes (Birkenstocks and what not) are pretty damn ugly.

OK ... Someone should ban those ugly hippie shoes.
 

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Somebody should stop Hollywood from making movies where guys dress up as overweight women. Eddy Murphy, Martin Lawrence, John Travolta and a few others should be taken out back and throttled.
 

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Someone should create National Sadie Hawkins Day where women are expected to approach men and ask them out.
 

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Someone should make it a low that Konomi has to come out with a new Metal Gear Solid every year.. I CAN'T TAKE IT ANY MORE!!!

I'm not that big into video games like I was in highschool....but you know when a good metal gear solid came come sout.. because I am no where to be found until I have beaten it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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