"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was out today with some friends and we started playing a game called "Somebody should..." It's basically a rant about things in general that it would be great if somebody did something to help fix the problem (or at least make it easier to deal with).


Somebody should create a place where only single people without young children could hang out and meet.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nah, I don't agree with that.


It would be too borring..... Plus I bet you know that I believe there are no single women out there. At least none that a healthy and single. I preffer a girl that is married, have a boyfriend, or is a lesbian.
 

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Docs said:
Somebody should solve the problem to red lights.


SOLVED. Get a bicycle. Then you can blow those on the side or side walk. No problems. I even blew one with cop waiting for red light. :crackup:

*****es.
 

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djSlvt said:
SOLVED. Get a bicycle. Then you can blow those on the side or side walk. No problems. I even blew one with cop waiting for red light. :crackup:

*****es.
You're annoying.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Somebody should tell women that although they may be comfortable, flip-flops aren't sexy.
 

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actually I kinda dig flip flops on the right girl.. she has to have pretty feet though
 

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actually I kinda dig flip flops on the right girl.. she has to have pretty feet though
I don't know, have you ever really watched women walk in those things? I think it's far from sexy, even petite women seem to lumber about in those things.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Someone should wait for someone else to make things happen.
 

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Vulpine said:
Someone should wait for someone else to make things happen.
Hey! You're giving away the message of this thread!!!! :cuss:
 

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Nighthawk said:
...clone Elvis
They did - he was DJ'ing at an event on saturday that i bartended for. should have seen him play the air gitar.......he had it all - the leather pants, the shoes, the hair....everything.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I don't know, have you ever really watched women walk in those things? I think it's far from sexy, even petite women seem to lumber about in those things.

okay let me put it this way... when girl says "pick what you want me to wear today", I'm not rushing for the flip flops or anything, but just walking around.. i've seen worse.

what's bad is women who don't take care of their feet who wear flip flops
 

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backbreaker said:
actually I kinda dig flip flops on the right girl.. she has to have pretty feet though

Word I dig flip flops :eek:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So do you guys dig flip-flops or is it really women's feet?
 

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women's feet IN flip flops

(how did we start a post about flip flops)

I do have a foot fetish however, I admit that much
 

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Sombody should change the topic of what somebody should do about flip-flops.
 

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what's a gator shoe?


someone should ban women who don't give head
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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