Ringleader41
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also if you're her last plate too
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Some signs you're the top plate a girl is spinning
- Thread starter Ringleader41
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ringleader41
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guys she's banging
I agree with PairPlusRoyalFlush, but remember, for all the talk we have about NC, girls understand that stuff too. They invented NC I'm pretty sure. So when you first meet a girl and she suddenly starts texting all the time, you might think that is high interest when it's medium interest. She's gone NC with her #1 plate and is filling time with you. Likewise, later on, when she develops feelings, she will suddenly care enough to start playing games in order to control the relationship. Then she might contact you less but her interest level is actually higher. If you don't remember this, you might have a defeatist attitude and blow it. Always assume they like you until they tell you they will never go out with you.
Good signs:
1) They text a sexy photo of themselves.
2) They use key words like "excited" and "love" a lot.
3) They text a heart, or broken heart when you don't reply.
4) You get a 700 word text message in multiple parts.
5) The number of days per week they are texting you is increasing.
6) They initiate text conversations.
7) They freak out if you don't reply.
8) They text to invite you out for an overnight trip.
9) You can make plans weeks in advance and they show up on time.
10) They show up for a date even though they are sick.
11) They grab your hand and pull you along in the restaurant.
12) They have an orgasm.
13) They remember stories you told about other women and act jealous for months.
14) They say "What are we?"
15) They French kiss you indefinitely.
16) They call after a date, gushing with how much fun they had.
Bad signs:
1) They text "Umm..."
2) They never send long text messages.
3) They go more than 14 days without replying (then it's over).
4) They say "B-bye".
5) They don't even text a thank-you after a date.
(Yes part of it doesn't make sense but women don't make sense. The same stimulus does not always produce the same response. Talk to women who really like a guy and they often they admit that they won't text the guy first, only if he writes to them first. That usually only happens after high interest + sex has happened).
Good signs:
1) They text a sexy photo of themselves.
2) They use key words like "excited" and "love" a lot.
3) They text a heart, or broken heart when you don't reply.
4) You get a 700 word text message in multiple parts.
5) The number of days per week they are texting you is increasing.
6) They initiate text conversations.
7) They freak out if you don't reply.
8) They text to invite you out for an overnight trip.
9) You can make plans weeks in advance and they show up on time.
10) They show up for a date even though they are sick.
11) They grab your hand and pull you along in the restaurant.
12) They have an orgasm.
13) They remember stories you told about other women and act jealous for months.
14) They say "What are we?"
15) They French kiss you indefinitely.
16) They call after a date, gushing with how much fun they had.
Bad signs:
1) They text "Umm..."
2) They never send long text messages.
3) They go more than 14 days without replying (then it's over).
4) They say "B-bye".
5) They don't even text a thank-you after a date.
(Yes part of it doesn't make sense but women don't make sense. The same stimulus does not always produce the same response. Talk to women who really like a guy and they often they admit that they won't text the guy first, only if he writes to them first. That usually only happens after high interest + sex has happened).
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Ringleader41
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Wait that doesn't make any sense. You say they start playing games with you and not texting you a lot, but your good signs says they will text you a lot
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Why would a man even consider being a plate a girl is spinning!! unless she's a fbuddy, that is not an option for a guy. put things in perspective a guy is never a plate. you're either being played- if you getting sex from the girl or being strung along- if you ain't getting sex