Ringleader41
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also if you're her last plate too
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Some signs you're the top plate a girl is spinning
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Ringleader41
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guys she's banging
I agree with PairPlusRoyalFlush, but remember, for all the talk we have about NC, girls understand that stuff too. They invented NC I'm pretty sure. So when you first meet a girl and she suddenly starts texting all the time, you might think that is high interest when it's medium interest. She's gone NC with her #1 plate and is filling time with you. Likewise, later on, when she develops feelings, she will suddenly care enough to start playing games in order to control the relationship. Then she might contact you less but her interest level is actually higher. If you don't remember this, you might have a defeatist attitude and blow it. Always assume they like you until they tell you they will never go out with you.
Good signs:
1) They text a sexy photo of themselves.
2) They use key words like "excited" and "love" a lot.
3) They text a heart, or broken heart when you don't reply.
4) You get a 700 word text message in multiple parts.
5) The number of days per week they are texting you is increasing.
6) They initiate text conversations.
7) They freak out if you don't reply.
8) They text to invite you out for an overnight trip.
9) You can make plans weeks in advance and they show up on time.
10) They show up for a date even though they are sick.
11) They grab your hand and pull you along in the restaurant.
12) They have an orgasm.
13) They remember stories you told about other women and act jealous for months.
14) They say "What are we?"
15) They French kiss you indefinitely.
16) They call after a date, gushing with how much fun they had.
Bad signs:
1) They text "Umm..."
2) They never send long text messages.
3) They go more than 14 days without replying (then it's over).
4) They say "B-bye".
5) They don't even text a thank-you after a date.
(Yes part of it doesn't make sense but women don't make sense. The same stimulus does not always produce the same response. Talk to women who really like a guy and they often they admit that they won't text the guy first, only if he writes to them first. That usually only happens after high interest + sex has happened).
Good signs:
1) They text a sexy photo of themselves.
2) They use key words like "excited" and "love" a lot.
3) They text a heart, or broken heart when you don't reply.
4) You get a 700 word text message in multiple parts.
5) The number of days per week they are texting you is increasing.
6) They initiate text conversations.
7) They freak out if you don't reply.
8) They text to invite you out for an overnight trip.
9) You can make plans weeks in advance and they show up on time.
10) They show up for a date even though they are sick.
11) They grab your hand and pull you along in the restaurant.
12) They have an orgasm.
13) They remember stories you told about other women and act jealous for months.
14) They say "What are we?"
15) They French kiss you indefinitely.
16) They call after a date, gushing with how much fun they had.
Bad signs:
1) They text "Umm..."
2) They never send long text messages.
3) They go more than 14 days without replying (then it's over).
4) They say "B-bye".
5) They don't even text a thank-you after a date.
(Yes part of it doesn't make sense but women don't make sense. The same stimulus does not always produce the same response. Talk to women who really like a guy and they often they admit that they won't text the guy first, only if he writes to them first. That usually only happens after high interest + sex has happened).
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Ringleader41
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Wait that doesn't make any sense. You say they start playing games with you and not texting you a lot, but your good signs says they will text you a lot
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Why would a man even consider being a plate a girl is spinning!! unless she's a fbuddy, that is not an option for a guy. put things in perspective a guy is never a plate. you're either being played- if you getting sex from the girl or being strung along- if you ain't getting sex