"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Some resources from book Men on Strike
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
mrgoodstuff
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Makes perfect sense. A way to handle it with integrity.
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New and improved? What's that? "Now without fuzzy hats"?
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I believe it's a 2010 book*.
*Lynx: I'm all for older books. Just making the point that it's probably not "new" as in 2019-2020.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
oh ok. I copied the exact title and that's why those words are in there between the two "book title" quotation marks.
Thanks. I found some Mystery youtube videos it would be nice to get that book. I like how he teaches. Too bad he's not on sosuave.
hey, I gotta defend my golden horseshoe(area of world we're both from) guy........peacocking works.
I have this bright silver cap and I get all kinds of openers and negs on. So his fuzzy black hats and black fingernails worked.
Hope he's doing ok, btw.
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I tried some crazy peacocking back during the 2004 to 2010 era. Can search the Fuze necklace or LED Belt lol.
The former worked ok with women; the later was only funny and entertaining for guys.