"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Some resources from book Men on Strike
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Makes perfect sense. A way to handle it with integrity.
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New and improved? What's that? "Now without fuzzy hats"?
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I believe it's a 2010 book*.
*Lynx: I'm all for older books. Just making the point that it's probably not "new" as in 2019-2020.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
oh ok. I copied the exact title and that's why those words are in there between the two "book title" quotation marks.
Thanks. I found some Mystery youtube videos it would be nice to get that book. I like how he teaches. Too bad he's not on sosuave.
hey, I gotta defend my golden horseshoe(area of world we're both from) guy........peacocking works.
I have this bright silver cap and I get all kinds of openers and negs on. So his fuzzy black hats and black fingernails worked.
Hope he's doing ok, btw.
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I tried some crazy peacocking back during the 2004 to 2010 era. Can search the Fuze necklace or LED Belt lol.
The former worked ok with women; the later was only funny and entertaining for guys.