"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Some resources from book Men on Strike
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
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Makes perfect sense. A way to handle it with integrity.
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New and improved? What's that? "Now without fuzzy hats"?
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I believe it's a 2010 book*.
*Lynx: I'm all for older books. Just making the point that it's probably not "new" as in 2019-2020.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
oh ok. I copied the exact title and that's why those words are in there between the two "book title" quotation marks.
Thanks. I found some Mystery youtube videos it would be nice to get that book. I like how he teaches. Too bad he's not on sosuave.
hey, I gotta defend my golden horseshoe(area of world we're both from) guy........peacocking works.
I have this bright silver cap and I get all kinds of openers and negs on. So his fuzzy black hats and black fingernails worked.
Hope he's doing ok, btw.
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I tried some crazy peacocking back during the 2004 to 2010 era. Can search the Fuze necklace or LED Belt lol.
The former worked ok with women; the later was only funny and entertaining for guys.